Mother’s Day has come once again and I could not be more happy to be a mom/have a great mom!
I have accepted and embraced the fact that my children are where they should be and there is nothing I could/would want to change about that. It took me a great deal of time to come to this point in my grief journey, and I know some days are definitely worse than others, but I know God’s right there with me through this healing process.
But this day isn’t about me… it’s about my mom. Let me just tell you a little bit about her and why she is so amazing. My mom has been through a tough times, and had to make some adult decisions early on in her life. With getting married and divorced at such a young age, she was left with raising two kids on her own. She never gave up. She continued on to getting her Masters, all while working full-time and raising two children. I am sure there were moments where she probably just wanted a “break” and throw in the towel. Well, good thing she never did, because her desire and drive to love unconditionally and have a great work ethic passed on to my brother and I.
She fought for us in every situation (even when the daycare said that we did something wrong–she stuck up for us). She gave us freedom to attend any camps during the summer that we were interested in and gave us the ability to learn how to make decisions early on in our childhood that would help mold us as adults.
Just when we thought she had done it all, she amazed us by graduating with her PhD from the University of Texas. My brother and I have never had the educational drive like her to further our careers (well, at least not yet), but she instilled in us that you must get a good education if you want a good job.
When we both became parents for the first time, she was the person we wanted in the room (me) or on the phone (my brother). Nana will forever be her name now, and I know that makes her so happy to be called that (and trust me, it’s usually one of the first words our kids learn to say).
She is super Mom because even though my and brother are both grown adults (27 &28), we will always know that our mom is just a phone call, text, or drive away if we ever needed her.
We love you forever mom,
(silhouette of the grandchildren)
Happy Mother’s Day!!♥